Friends in a bad/abusive relationship

Have u ever had a friend who was in a bad or abusive relationship... I have. It hurts even more when both the people are your friend the only thing 2 do den is 2 stand back nd let ur friend help themselves but be supportive. You may wanna strangle the abusive person but dat may nd i really mean may cause more trouble or can help but it's risky, do u wanna take dat chance? When ur friend ask u do u think dey should break up wit a person say "it's not my place 2 say" cause dat may cost u ur life. But pray 4 ur friend so god may be wit him/her.